BJs vs Oral

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I know guys are meant to love blow jobs but I've always preferred giving oral. I don't know what it is about it. Perhaps it's just the strong submissive element to it. I told my wife that I much rather give than receive oral sex. She hasn't give me a BJ in years but I lick her out every time we have sex now.

It's one of my favourite things in life. I feel so good being down there between he thighs pleasuring her.

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  1. subscribeJanuary 12, 2009 at 11:53 AM

    I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels that way - I'd much rather go donw on my mistress than have her go down on me. I suspect it is a submissive thing - I feel completely lost in service to her while I'm doing it.

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  2. Susan's PetJanuary 12, 2009 at 5:09 PM

    I don't have a choice. My wife never blows me. And like you, I can never have enough of pleasuring her with my tongue. I don't find it particularly submissive as a submission goes. I just love to give her pleasure in any way that she wishes, even it I hurt. I am happy when she can't take any more.

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  3. AnonymousJanuary 25, 2009 at 4:02 PM

    I too understand how you feel. My wife rarely gives blow jobs and just doesn't really seem to enjoy it. That translates to me and therefore it isn't as enjoyable for me. She also doesn't have the best technique and I doubt I would risk making her feel bad by letting her know or by trying to teach her. Instead I would much rather be allowed the privilege of licking her. When she is in the mood it is obvious she enjoys being licked a great deal and I totally enjoy knowing I am bringing her pleasure. I do automatically get in a more submissive mode and this has grown over time. I feel more at home licking her and being down by her legs. Now if I had to choose between the two I would take only being able to give oral vs my being allowed to penetrate her.

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