Quick Post

Hey Y'all,

It's been a long time since I posted. Just letting you know I haven't gone away and disappeared.
With my wife being pregnant and me working harder than ever FLR has taken a back seat most of the last year, aside from occasionally looking after her feet/toes.
Hope to be back on track in the next couple of months.

Life has different stages and sometimes you gotta just roll with it.

A taste of new fun

I know I've been away for a while.

Fear not, all is well.
I've just been so busy that I haven't had time to post much. As has always been the case, my lovely wife and I go through periods of higher and lower intensity in terms of our FLR, which is fine.

I work very hard and am often quite tired when I get home late.

We still enjoy the same fun and occasionally progress to new things. Quite recently she's enjoyed serving me a cream pie from her rear. She quite likes rear entry and loves to have me pleasure me in this way.

Right after I climax she'll have me lie back on the bed and sit on my face (facing my legs) and tell me to suck every last drop out. I really do love it. It doesn't even feel dirty anymore as it's now quite normal that I have to consume every time.

Quite recently we stayed for a week in a hotel room with a very large shower. She took full advantage of this to have me lie down in it and direct her golden goodness sraight into my mouth. Sometimes some got me nose and we both started laughing. We really enjoy it.

From reading my blog you might think we're this full on FLR couple. We're not. Most of the time we've vanilla and no one would ever know. We could go a week without anything sexual or unconventional, but when we have fun we enjoy it.

I help her as much as I can during the week and attend to sanding her feet and polishing her toenails as she requires.
She likes me at her feet. And I love being at her feet.

In response to Lady Grey

In my previous post Lady Grey asked me

"What if she had told you that you couldn't even bring up the subject of sex, and that if you did you'd be automatically denied for an even longer period? Which would be worse for you, to beg and be refused or to have to wait until she brings it up? Which way would you be more aroused?"

I can see how it would attract others, but for me personally I wouldn't actually like if she said I couldn't even bring up the subject of sex, and that if I did I'd automatically denied for an even longer period.

I guess every couple is different and every relationship is different. Different relationships operate at different intensities and this can change from time to time. We have two young babies so we're lucky to have much of a sex life at all.

To answer her second question I'd rather beg and be refused than wait until she brings it up. Begging and being refused would be a turn on in and of itself. We'd both feel her dominance when she denies me.

Having to wait until she brings it up could lead me to get very frustrated and I personally just wouldn't be turned on by it. However I can understand why others would like this.

How I now have to ask for sex

This is something I would have fantasized about but not expected to happen...

The other night my wife told me I needed to ask for her permission if I wanted to have sex. "How should I ask?" I responded.

She told me that earlier in the day I have to go over to her, get down and kiss her feet and then say "Boss, can we please have sex tonight"
I couldn't believe what I was hearing, it was the type of situation I've always wanted and I was surprised to hear it coming from my wife like that. The next day, I displeased her (by eating too much of the chocolate she needed for cooking) and was put on a penalty of not being allowed release until after midnight on Sunday. I also have to wear and incredibly narrow thong until then.

I can't wait until after my penalty period expires and I can ask her in this new way she specified.

I love my wife and I know I'm a lucky man.

My thoughts on cuckoldry

OK. I will may lose some readers for this as I realize many of you have very firm views on this.....and that's fine with me

Life wouldn't be very interesting if we all thought the same thing about the same things!

I've never experienced or met anyone who was involved in this activity so that already limits my expertise on the subject. However, I have read quite a few blogs and message boards which discuss it. From what I read, there are people who engage in this successfully and it works well for them (in this case I'd define successful as being they view it as an overall positive experience and if they could turn back the hands of time they'd do it again). I have absolutely no problem with this and am happy that they have found something which enriches their lives. I'm all for choice and diversity etc..

In my own personal opinion, I wouldn't like it. While I still viewed myself as being vanilla, I never liked the idea of swinging as I always thought it too dangerous to a relationship to start getting physically involved with others. Obviously lots of people see no problem with this.

I've noticed that many of the blogs and message board postings discussing the activity refer to "gut wrenching" emotions and often pain accompanied by the deepest possible subspace at other times. It appears that in many cases it seems the amount of emotional energy they put into it can take over their lives leading to an unhealthy balance.

I've also read several accounts of where men fantisized about it, enjoyed parts of it when it happened but then later regretted it when their wife started to emotionally bond with the 3rd party and pay less attention to them.

Men and women are different. For men, sex can be another fun activity like playing football and many can easily engage it it with a stranger and have zero emotional involvement. As a broad generalization (to which there are many exceptions, including people reading this) women tend to get more emotionally involved when having sex. If they start having sex with someone over a period of time they're more likely to start bonding with them in some way. This increases the chances of the cuck being somewhat neglected as his wife spends more time with the bull and enjoys new found libido.

I do believe that this has and does work for certain people, but I never could see it working for me personally and my beautiful wife.

Stages of our FLR

I'll freely admit that my relationship may not be as it comes across in this blog. It's not that I ever write anything untrue here (I never have.) It's just the fact that it's usually only includes the more interesting parts.

When a movie is being produced, a lot of footage has to be shot before it is edited down to only the most exciting and relevant segments. No one wants to watch a 15hr borefest.

I've noticed that I sometimes go weeks without a single post. This can be because I'm too busy with daily life or that the FLR aspect of our relationship has sagged a little. I usually only include the juicy news.

To a certain extent it comes and goes. However there is now a level of understanding which never goes away. For years I worked on getting more wife more and more into it. We played lots of bedroom games and had lots of fun. There were a couple of pivotal moments.

- I would have discussed with her how I like to please her etc.... and enjoy her being in charge. She responded fairly positively.

- another pivotal moment was when I ordered "Around Her Finger" and read it to her over a couple of evenings in bed. We put FLR on trial and she loved it. We'd live an FLR life for a while and then life would get to busy and it would soon fall by the wayside. We spent 3-4 years in stage of on again, relaxed the FLR again.

- the biggest pivotal moment was when she joined she-makes-the-rules.com and read about other real women in this lifestyle. It became more "normal" and acceptable. Her imagination was sparked by what other women were doing and I almost worried that I had unleashed a monster.

It made me realise that it was ME who was actually controlling much of this. When she really took control and started pro actively looking to take charge I felt a mixture of excitement and to be honest a little fear--which I was surprised to notice.

I'm now content in our FLR in that we've reached a point of no return and I don't feel like I need to convince her any more. I just need to love and take care of her.

How to resolve a disagreement

Quite recently I was picking out the colours for my new car which comes with my job. I wanted a beige interior and black exterior while my wife wanted other colours. I listened to her point of view but reasoned that it's a car I use all day so I still may as well pick the colours.

One evening (when the kids were asleep) we were discussing it in the kitchen when she called me over to her as she was standing across the room. She pulled down her panties and ordered me to my knees to kiss her private area. (in a position like the attached image but she was facing me. We were both dresses as normal)

I happily dropped to my knees and buried my face into her sweet femininity. As I was licking and looking up at her she told me what colours I'd be getting. I happily complied. I reminded her that anything I would look at the colours she chose, I'd remember this moment and be happy.

My new car arrived with the colours she chose and I love it. It brings a smile to my face to remember how she made me choose it.