How to sext / text your wife / partner privately or secretively if you have kids
What do you do if you want sext / text your wife / partner privately or secretively if you have kids?
It's not as easy as you think.
If you use your phones text messages, WhatsApp or Facebook Messenger its easy for kids who know your passcode to easy find and read through all your messages.
The best solution we've found so far is to use Viber secret messages.
What can you do with Viber secret messages?
You can text each other and set your phones so that the only notification that flashes up on your screen is that you've received a new Viber message.
When you go into the Viber app, you cannot see the new message, you can only see an icon that there is a new message. To read the message you need to enter the secret pin code you set up into the search bar at the top. Immediately the secret chat you have with your partner will be visible
Any other benefits to using it aside from hiding from kids?
Yes. The main benefit is that you are mentally in the appropriate frame of mind when opening the message. Perhaps you're having an otherwise boring chat with your partner about logistical or similar things that are happening that day with your family and dinner arrangements. You may not want to interject an erotic message into the same text stream as it could be out of context.
If you send it with Viber you've both mentally moved to a different space for this parallel chat and evening when opening the message there's an excitement as you know it's probably going to be more interesting than
How Do We Do It?
See how to at the bottom.
What's your experience?
Do you sext your wife/partner?
What message service do you use?
How well does it work for you?
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https://support.viber.com/customer/en/portal/articles/2739322-secret-chats
Secret Chats
Secret chats provide an extra level of privacy above a normal chat, including disappearing messages and controls on forwarding messages.
Tap on New secret chat to get started.
Start a secret chat
Set a time limit
Photo galleries
Secret chats in the chat screen
Secret chat notifications
Screenshots
Tap on New secret chat to get started.
Start a secret chat
Set a time limit
Photo galleries
Secret chats in the chat screen
Secret chat notifications
Screenshots
Start a secret chat
Start a secret chat from any existing 1-on-1 chat. This will create a new chat that runs separately to your existing, non-secret chat.
You can't make an existing group chat into a secret chat, but you can start a new group secret chat.
1. Open the existing chat
2. Tap the menu button
You can't make an existing group chat into a secret chat, but you can start a new group secret chat.
1. Open the existing chat
2. Tap the menu button
3. Choose Open secret chat
4. In the new chat, set the timer and send your disappearing messages
OR
1. Open the Chat info screen
2. Select Open secret chat
1. Open the Chat info screen
2. Select Open secret chat
3. In the new chat, set the timer and send your disappearing messages
Set a time limit
Set a time limit to control how long the message is visible to the recipient. Once this time has ended, the message will disappear entirely without leaving a trace on anyone’s Viber chat.
Photo galleries
Photos or videos sent in a Secret Chat still appear in your phone’s photo gallery.
The timer will start once the message is opened.
Use the timer
1. Tap the timer button
Use the timer
1. Tap the timer button
2. Set a time-limit from the options
3. Send the message you want to send
4. Watch it disappear without a trace when the timer runs out
We do not have any children and seldom text one another. However privacy is still important. One time we were on a bus and I made a sassy remark. Forgetting that we were in public, my girlfriend said in a loud voice: "When we get home I'm going to put you over my knee and SPANK YOUR BOTTOM!" I spent the rest of the trip carefully avoiding eye contact with the other passengers.
ReplyDeleteHenry
Hey Henry,
ReplyDeletethanks for your comment.
That must have been soooo embarrassing when your girlfriend said that aloud on the bus! Although I'm sure you loved it too!
AdoresHisWife
Things like this are embarrassing at the time but exciting when I think back on them later. It might have been good if we had had a conversation about spanking, the other passengers might have joined in!
ReplyDeleteHenry