Monday, April 19, 2010
In response to Lady Grey
In my previous post Lady Grey asked me
"What if she had told you that you couldn't even bring up the subject of sex, and that if you did you'd be automatically denied for an even longer period? Which would be worse for you, to beg and be refused or to have to wait until she brings it up? Which way would you be more aroused?"
I can see how it would attract others, but for me personally I wouldn't actually like if she said I couldn't even bring up the subject of sex, and that if I did I'd automatically denied for an even longer period.
I guess every couple is different and every relationship is different. Different relationships operate at different intensities and this can change from time to time. We have two young babies so we're lucky to have much of a sex life at all.
To answer her second question I'd rather beg and be refused than wait until she brings it up. Begging and being refused would be a turn on in and of itself. We'd both feel her dominance when she denies me.
Having to wait until she brings it up could lead me to get very frustrated and I personally just wouldn't be turned on by it. However I can understand why others would like this.