Young Sub Hub

In my previous post Lady Grey asked me "What if she had told you that you couldn't even bring up the subject of sex, and that if you did you'd be automatically denied for an even longer period? Which would be worse for you, to beg and be refused or to have to wait until she brings it up? Which way would you be more aroused? " I can see how it would attract others, but for me personally I wouldn't actually like if she said I couldn't even bring up the subject of sex, and that if I did I'd automatically denied for an even longer period. I guess every couple is different and every relationship is different. Different relationships operate at different intensities and this can change from time to time. We have two young babies so we're lucky to have much of a sex life at all. To answer her second question I'd rather beg and be refused than wait until she brings it up. Begging and being refused would be a turn on in and of itself. We'd both feel her...

This is something I would have fantasized about but not expected to happen... The other night my wife told me I needed to ask for her permission if I wanted to have sex. "How should I ask?" I responded. She told me that earlier in the day I have to go over to her, get down and kiss her feet and then say "Boss, can we please have sex tonight" I couldn't believe what I was hearing, it was the type of situation I've always wanted and I was surprised to hear it coming from my wife like that. The next day, I displeased her (by eating too much of the chocolate she needed for cooking) and was put on a penalty of not being allowed release until after midnight on Sunday. I also have to wear and incredibly narrow thong until then. I can't wait until after my penalty period expires and I can ask her in this new way she specified. I love my wife and I know I'm a lucky man.

OK. I will may lose some readers for this as I realize many of you have very firm views on this.....and that's fine with me Life wouldn't be very interesting if we all thought the same thing about the same things! I've never experienced or met anyone who was involved in this activity so that already limits my expertise on the subject. However, I have read quite a few blogs and message boards which discuss it. From what I read, there are people who engage in this successfully and it works well for them (in this case I'd define successful as being they view it as an overall positive experience and if they could turn back the hands of time they'd do it again). I have absolutely no problem with this and am happy that they have found something which enriches their lives. I'm all for choice and diversity etc.. In my own personal opinion, I wouldn't like it. While I still viewed myself as being vanilla, I never liked the idea of swinging as I always thought it too...