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Our Anniversary

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It was our anniversary recently and I hadn't prepared a single thing, I had been overwhelmed with work and coming home very tired. With our two babies we hardly had a moment to be intimate over the last few weeks and we needed some time to ourselves. During the day of our anniversary I figured I better take her out for dinner and eventually decided on a restaurant in the best hotel in the area. Since we hadn't been intimate in a while I was eager to get some time alone with her. I booked a room at the hotel that we'd be passing as we left the restaurant. Before I came home to bring her out I went to the hotel, checked in and collected my key. I couldn't wait to get her up there. All through dinner I was 1/2 nervous, 1/2 excited and couldn't stop thinking about what we were going to do afterwards. I was careful not to order to much food and hoped she wouldn't eat too much so we wouldn't feel full and bloated afterwards. Thankfully dinner didn't take too l...

Creampie

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Sorry about the delay in posting. I've been very busy with work and been travelling quite a lot. LFR sometimes get pushed aside by everyday life. But that's fine, I don't want it to be this big serious all consuming thing that takes over my life. I just like to enjoy my time with my wife when I'm with her. To be honest, we can go through times when there's very little sexual happening and then it all happens together. For the last few months it has become normal for her to require me to eat her creampie. I get so excited about the thought of it before hand. However, although I get repulsed at the idea of it right after I come, I do enjoy getting right down there and cleaning her out. And I know she enjoys it to. You guys have similar experiences with creampie? What do your ladies think if it?

New Device: So far not so good

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My new birdlocked device arrived a few days ago. Despite many attempts I can't put it on! I don't want to get into too much detail.... but I hang quite close to my body and simlpy cannot stretch my scrotum far enough to get to the second photograph on this link http://www.birdlocked.com/male_chastity_device/forum_chastity.asp I've tried at several times of the day both before and after ejaculation. I'm not sure what to do about it as I've never come across anyone mentioning it. Has anyone any experience of this problem?

Just Ordered My First Device

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Almost vanilla

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Sometimes we almost lead a vanilla life. It's not all intense femdom. With young kids, lack of sleep and too much work we can both end up drained. Thankfully she's still remembering to ask for her nightly foot rub in bed after which I'm allowed a little kiss.

(Cliche alert) I needed to start focus on her needs not just mine.

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In response to the last post At All Times asked: "I get this on occassions, but mostly in the bedroom, was there a time for you when it was the same for you, and what happened to change this, for your wife to take this outside the bedroom." Sure there was. I think initially my wife thought this was just a fad. This was reinforced when I went through periods of not being fully committed to FLR. I don't wear a device and sometimes if I came home really exhausted from work and just needed to rest for a while I wasn't so enthusiastic about helping out etc... Add two young kids and we'd then slip back into the old routine of 50/50 etc.... Then time would pass by where I realise I'm not happy without FLR, and she's not happy with me being grumpy and unhelpful around the house. I'd then broach the subject again, but most recently promised to myself not to pressure her and focus on serving her best I can . I am also careful not to make her feel like I exp...

some things we do

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What have we done that isn't vanilla? - sex almost always beings with me massaging/kissing her feet/body - she'll have me lick her ass while she uses a dildo - she'll have me kiss/lick her feet while she plays with her dildo. (she also likes me inside but I don't last long since she became boss. I just get far too excited!) - when she allows me to come she often likes me standing at the end of the bed with one leg up on the bed so she can see better She then needs me to come in my hands and lick it. - I'll wash her in the shower. Kneel down to scrub her legs, feet. Kiss her feet and pussy. I love looking up at her face while kneeling before her. - as she's blow drying her hair I'll massage her shoulders. Then rub lotion on her legs/feet, followed by being allowed to kiss her feet and very briefly her pussy/anus. - once at a hotel function we snook out to a (somewhat) private area downstairs. I knelt before her kissing her feet through her sandals and masturb...