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(Cliche alert) I needed to start focus on her needs not just mine.

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In response to the last post At All Times asked: "I get this on occassions, but mostly in the bedroom, was there a time for you when it was the same for you, and what happened to change this, for your wife to take this outside the bedroom." Sure there was. I think initially my wife thought this was just a fad. This was reinforced when I went through periods of not being fully committed to FLR. I don't wear a device and sometimes if I came home really exhausted from work and just needed to rest for a while I wasn't so enthusiastic about helping out etc... Add two young kids and we'd then slip back into the old routine of 50/50 etc.... Then time would pass by where I realise I'm not happy without FLR, and she's not happy with me being grumpy and unhelpful around the house. I'd then broach the subject again, but most recently promised to myself not to pressure her and focus on serving her best I can . I am also careful not to make her feel like I exp...

some things we do

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What have we done that isn't vanilla? - sex almost always beings with me massaging/kissing her feet/body - she'll have me lick her ass while she uses a dildo - she'll have me kiss/lick her feet while she plays with her dildo. (she also likes me inside but I don't last long since she became boss. I just get far too excited!) - when she allows me to come she often likes me standing at the end of the bed with one leg up on the bed so she can see better She then needs me to come in my hands and lick it. - I'll wash her in the shower. Kneel down to scrub her legs, feet. Kiss her feet and pussy. I love looking up at her face while kneeling before her. - as she's blow drying her hair I'll massage her shoulders. Then rub lotion on her legs/feet, followed by being allowed to kiss her feet and very briefly her pussy/anus. - once at a hotel function we snook out to a (somewhat) private area downstairs. I knelt before her kissing her feet through her sandals and masturb...

I love a good shave

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Although I hated the idea of doing it at first, I now love a god shave. The act of doing it makes me feel incredibly submissive. My wife much prefers it as it helps remind me who's in charge.

BJs vs Oral

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I know guys are meant to love blow jobs but I've always preferred giving oral. I don't know what it is about it. Perhaps it's just the strong submissive element to it. I told my wife that I much rather give than receive oral sex. She hasn't give me a BJ in years but I lick her out every time we have sex now. It's one of my favourite things in life. I feel so good being down there between he thighs pleasuring her.

Clooney wanted some femdom action too...

Tarantino has a major foot fetish

This scene was a major trigger for me in realising how much I loved femdom: Here he openly admits his foot fetish: Here are selected scenes from his movies where he focuses on feet:

Not ready for a device

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I saw the CB-3000 Curve in a shop last week and almost bought it. However it looked so uncomfortable I couldn't imagine myself wearing it underneath my suit all day. From reading online reviews, many users claim that it's uncomfortable and can be painful. Has anyone here any experience with it?